Most times we mistake being a man as having license to do whatever we like and being above the law.
No. Being a real man means being responsible, being able to own up to your mistakes and being able to maintain relationships especially in marriage.
There are real men out there that have hearts full of love and understanding, although that majority of bad eggs have made it difficult for us to differentiate who is who.
Wise men should endeavour to be real men in their words and deeds.
Qualities of a real man
- They are aware that love is one of the most amazing feelings in the world. Real men know how rare true love is nowadays. They know how rotten and wicked this world today is. That is why love is the only thing that keeps them alive and gives them the strength to get up in the morning. Real men know that true love is worth fighting for. They love their wife easily without being told to.
- They don’t try to change their wives – They fall in love with the flaws and imperfections. It is all about empathy, respect, mutual understanding, and compassion. Real men fall in love with the real version of their wives. It is exactly the differences and peculiarities in a person that makes them fall madly in love with someone. They would never try to change their partner or mold them into someone else.
- Real Man Chooses To Love, Honor, Respect And Be Faithful To One Woman. They don’t take pride in hurting the feeling of their wife. They know appreciate the saying”do to others what you would want others do to you”
- They support their loved ones every step of the way. A real mature man who knows exactly what he wants out of life isn’t afraid to stand by his partner’s side despite all the obstacles and all the hardships in life. It’s simple. When he says I do, he means it from his heart. His promise means I will love you for the rest of his life and eternally… Not until we hit the first hurdle. You dare not insult the wife of a real man in his presence.
- They are mature and they are not afraid to commit. Unlike most men out there, real men aren’t afraid of commitment. They are loyal, loving and caring. They aren’t afraid of loving hard and “going all in”. They know that when love is real, there is no such thing as fear. The only thing that really matters in that exact moment is keeping that spark alive and nurturing love.
- .Most importantly, a real man is that man who has the fear of God. He needs not act to please men but to be worthy to be called a child of God. 7.They love from the heart. Purely. Madly. Intently. Passionately. Truly. People say l love is blind… I say, when it’s real, love can be the most beautiful feeling in the world. Real men know this. That is why they have a very generous heart. Real men believe in love. They base their lives on love. Most importantly, a real man knows that one woman is enough.
The question now, after reading this article; Are you a real man or an ordinary man? You alone knows the answer.
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